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From the earliest time that can begin to understand, it's important to teach empathy and morality. That is, the child should learn to do the right thing because it's right, not because he'll be punished if he doesn't do it.
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Create positive incentives. Make cleaning up into a game, bring a toy boat for a sailing trip in the bathtub, or take an umbrella into the shower for the rainstorm.
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Many studies have shown that hitting your child can hurt more than his body: It After all, many of us were spanked as children and we didn't turn out so bad, did we? We may feel that our parents were good parents, that they spanked us Many parents find that once they start spanking, they soon need to. Many studies have shown that hitting your child can hurt more than his body: It can He may reason that if he weren't such a bad boy, he wouldn't get hit. We may feel that our parents were good parents, that they spanked us Many parents who start spanking soon find they need to up the ante -- to. A new, large study looks at the negative effects, both short-term and long-term, Spanking once may have been acceptable, but a new policy statement from the Are the New Flu Vaccine Recommendations for Kids: What You Need to Know.
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Tell your child "It's okay to feel mad at your sister, but not to call her mean names.
You're bigger and stronger than your child -- and you can use that to defuse a situation, rather than to hurt. Talk about what to do in a conflict.
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Instead, he should tell the other child that he's angry and report the incident to an adult. This may sound like tattle-telling, but lets know that he can appeal to authority when confronted by irrational, aggressive behavior.
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The idea of a Time-out is to remove from an enjoyable place in which he is misbehaving and move him -- briefly -- to a quiet place where he can calm down, think about what happened, and get under control. The incentive to calm down is to return to the more enjoyable place.
Go to a different room if you can and cool off. Try doing a small task; working with your hands helps to calm you.
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