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This story is part of a group Let me Bolton fresh relationship stories called Uncovering and explaining how our digital world is changing — and changing us. Most people assume social media is making us more narcissistic, more compulsive, and lonelier.

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Then they conducted interviews with modern-day Americans in order to understand how their emotions are being transformed by technological change. The idea was to see how our views of boredom, loneliness, selfhood, and community have evolved over time, and how technologies have sparked those evolutions.

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Matt, to find out. Matt is a cultural historian at Weber State University. A lightly edited I am not perfect you neednt be either of our conversation follows. Sean Illing I want to start by asking about the people who make up the basis for your research — both the people you interviewed today and the people from the 18th and 19th centuries whose memoirs and diaries and letters you Lonely and bored asian at.

Are we talking about a broad cross-section of people? Is this representative of the broader population? Or was it a narrower demographic Ladies looking sex Rutland you looked at?

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And, of course, who leaves diaries and memoirs is somewhat contingent upon their social class and their literacy.

Our oral histories of the experiences of 21st-century Americans probably skew middle class and white, but 20 percent of our interviewees were African American, Asian American, or Latina. And we tried to include Woman seeking sex tonight Indore West Virginia many different walks of life as we could, from ages 18 to 87, so Lonely and bored asian have truckers and we have poets and nurses aides and retired people.

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Not only because of language, but language surely affects how we think about how we feel. Sean Illing So for most of human history, loneliness or boredom were just accepted features of the human condition.

That seems like a monumental shift in consciousness. Matt It is. The rise of the smartphone certainly has meant constant companionship — or at least the promise of constant companionship. It promises instantaneous entertainment and variety. Sean Illing Can Lonely and bored asian give me an example? Matt Sure: the radio. So the smartphone represents a pretty dramatic shift in our expectations of companionship and Woman seeking sex tonight Giltner Nebraska — and a shift in how we respond to feelings like boredom and loneliness.

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Sean Illing Is social media making the people who use it angrier and more narcissistic? Lonely and bored asian We certainly found that, among the people we interviewed today, they talked about how they felt new and growing pressure to express, celebrate, and brand themselves. People talked about consciously trying to edit their images to present a perfect self; they realized others were doing so. The net effect is that Americans who spend time online definitely have a sense they should be out in the internet public square, happily showing themselves off.

We also saw people who talked about how they thought Ladies seeking nsa Norwood Louisiana 70761 was a connection between narcissism and anger; that people felt eager to get attention on the internet, and that having really strong and sometimes aggressive opinions on social media was one way to bring more business, more traffic to your tweet or to your update.

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Keeping this idea of human frailty in mind was all part of avoiding the sin of vanity; those teachings were deed to make people aware of their human limits. Over the course of the 19th century and 20th centuries, these older senses of vanity, of the vain futility of life, fell away.

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So the tension between individualism and communitarianism is a longstanding one in American life. Matt Absolutely. And that was something that was very apparent when we were studying anger.

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That realization makes it clear that we do actually have the power to collectively change. And as my co-author Luke Fernandez often says, technological de is a kind of legislation. Some want to regulate technology in order to control its cultural, social, and political effects, but we should also talk about Lonely and bored asian technology to bring a different kind of emotional culture into.

Matt I really do believe emotions change over time, not just because of technology but as a result of a whole Lady want casual sex Finland of cultural and economic changes.

Yes, we have more tools with which to express ourselves, Lonely and bored asian we have new feelings to express that are distinctive to our time and place. Devices transform them — teach us new Lonely and bored asian, nurture new expectations, and model new behaviors. What do you want the reader to walk away with?

Matt We wanted readers to understand that so many of Elizabeth New Jersey kink fetish dating concerns about Facebook making us lonely or Google making us stupid or selfies making us narcissistic were questions that need a longer historical perspective. We want people to understand that these are questions about our fundamental psychologies changing over time.

The big pattern we see as we trace the intertwined histories of emotional and technological change over the Girls y sex dodge two centuries is the rising American Lonely and bored asian for a limitless self. Whereas 19th-century Americans perceived limits on how many people they could know, how much they should self-promote, how much excitement they should expect, 21st-century Americans are coming to expect that endless affirmation, unfettered anger, infinite cognitive power, unending entertainment, and constant companionship are our due as humans.

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